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Post by Rimmer on May 9, 2004 17:39:32 GMT -5
I broke up with my boyf today. We've been together for 2 years and it's kinda out the blue. He says it cos we don't talk much when we're at work. But then, we should be working at work, not talking. When we're together and alone we're fine. So I have been crying a lot today and not even copious amounts of Chris can make me feel any better. I'm meeting him tomorrow to discuss things. Personally I think that if we talk about what annoys us, and sort them out, we can give it another go. Then if it still doesn't work, then we can say we tried. It's just that we have never had a big arguement. never even raised voices at each other, and the result of not really talking at work is a finished long term relationship. I dunno...I'm so confused and yet so hurt. Word of advice to people, NEVER fal in love. Even if you think it's the stuff of fairytales, it hurts so much ican't describe it. Wish me luck for tomorrow. If we get back together I'll be over the moon and be crying. If we don't, I'll be depressed and crying. Either way, I'll cry.
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Post by Sailor Earth on May 10, 2004 4:56:45 GMT -5
Ooh no, I'm so sorry I kind of know the feeling, my b/f and I have had some close calls ourselves, but we've managed to talk things through and we're ok now... The reason why your b/f wanted to break up seems odd to me... and yeah, you should be working when you're at work anyway... I hope you can sort things out, but if you can't, even though the pain will be awful for a while, things will get better eventually...
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MegaGirl
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"Stop crying and say cheese, boys!" Aww, how cute! Can I be the mother, Lister. Please?
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Post by MegaGirl on May 10, 2004 15:46:12 GMT -5
Aww, that's sad! I felt that feeling before. In Ele. school.
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Post by Rimmer on May 10, 2004 17:24:16 GMT -5
Well, I went to see him this morning and as usual he gave me the crap reply about why we spilt up. I was angry cos his excuses were, (pardon my french but I was angry) bullsh*t. I told him that. He blurted out the real reason which fortunately neither my fault nor his. It kinda an external force which needs to resolve itself but requires him and me to break up while it sorts itself. He said he does still love me and as soon as this thing is fixed, we can think about geting back together again. I don't know how long this prob will take to iron itself out-I can't do anything about it, but I hope it's sooner rather than later.
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Post by Sailor Earth on May 11, 2004 0:52:31 GMT -5
It seems a bit strange that he'd need to break up in order to fix something... wouldn't he rather have your support? Meh I'm rather untrusting of peoples motives nowadays, don't mind me...
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Post by Captain Emerald on May 11, 2004 4:22:16 GMT -5
You need chocolate.
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Post by Sailor Earth on May 11, 2004 9:29:01 GMT -5
LOL ... "There's no problem that can't be solved by chocolate" "I think I'm gonna barf..." "Except for that..."
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Post by Rimmer on May 23, 2004 15:27:52 GMT -5
Woo! We are back together again! ;D ;D
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Post by Sailor Earth on May 27, 2004 8:17:13 GMT -5
Woo! We are back together again! ;D ;D That's great, I'm so happy for you! ;D
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Post by Captain Emerald on Jun 2, 2004 11:03:55 GMT -5
Congraties! Was it the choccy? ;D
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Post by Rimmer on Jun 2, 2004 19:22:36 GMT -5
Oddly enough, he doesn't like chocolate. So even if I did buy him some it would have cut little ice. I'd have been more sucessful with fudge or something.
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Post by Sailor Earth on Jun 2, 2004 21:33:18 GMT -5
He doesn't like chocolate? *le gasp* LOL each to their own
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Post by Captain Emerald on Jun 3, 2004 6:17:43 GMT -5
Well, knock me down with a feather! Still, fudge is nice... *does homer simpson type drueling* Mghaaaaaaaaaaaa...
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Post by Sailor Earth on Jun 3, 2004 11:48:32 GMT -5
LOL ;D Soz, just had to
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